Why Hitting $100K Months Left Me Empty and What I Discovered Instead
Have you ever stopped and asked yourself, “Why do I actually want more money?” Sure, there’s the usual list, security, freedom, comfort, but do those reasons truly resonate with you personally, or have they been borrowed from someone else’s script? The truth is, many of us chase financial milestones that society, family, or our peers […]
Bledsoe Brief #2 – Treat ChatGPT Like a Dojo, not a Dictionary
Most people use ChatGPT like a vending machine. Punch in a half-baked prompt.Wait for it to spit out something “good enough.”Copy. Paste. Move on. That’s not how I use it. To me, ChatGPT isn’t a productivity hack.It’s a dojo. A place to train how I think.To strip the noise.To sharpen my presence. Earlier this week, […]
The Money Mirror: What Your Finances Say About Your Inner World (Part 1 of 16)
Have you ever pulled up your banking app and felt a jolt of adrenaline shoot through your body like you’re about to open a message from your ex? Your heart skips. You hold your breath. You hope the numbers haven’t dipped into “panic mode” territory. Or maybe the numbers are looking good. Promotion landed. Client […]
Bledsoe Brief #1 – I didn’t hire a coach. I trained an algorithm.
I didn’t hire a personal trainer.I hired an algorithm. And to my surprise… it knows me better than most coaches I’ve worked with. It doesn’t yell at me to “push harder.”It doesn’t cancel sessions.It doesn’t forget what I told it last week. Instead, it listens. Every morning, I check my Garmin Instinct 3: sleep score, […]
No Kings: Reclaim Your Power Before Someone Else Does
The Surface and the Signal You’re feeling it. The static in the air. Everyone’s yelling. Protests. Propaganda. Performative outrage on loop. And now this phrase keeps popping up like spiritual graffiti on the walls of culture: “No Kings.” Sounds bold. Sounds righteous. But what if the deeper meaning has nothing to do with government… and […]
Reframing Stress: You’re Not Stressed, You’re Scared, and That’s a Good Thing
Part I: The Lie You’ve Been Living We’re living in a time where being burned out is the new status symbol. People compete over who slept the least, who’s busiest, and who’s most “stressed.” But let me give it to you straight: You’re not stressed. You’re scared. And that’s actually a good thing. Because fear […]
Why Saying “My Truth” Might Be Sabotaging Your Relationships (And What to Say Instead)
Let’s begin with something you’ve probably heard. Maybe you’ve even said it yourself: “I’m just speaking my truth.” It sounds empowering. Courageous, even. A kind of spiritual mic drop. It signals authenticity, confidence, and emotional depth. And in many ways, that’s exactly what it’s meant to do. But for all its popularity in personal development, […]
From Poly to Presence: My Path to Sovereignty
Before I learned devotion, I mastered distraction. I thought I was expanding my consciousness. In truth, I was running. The Setup There’s no denying this is a hot topic right now. The conversation around polyamory has resurfaced with new intensity, largely sparked by a recent podcast that’s been circulating widely. I’ve seen the posts, the […]
Your Relationship With Money Is Screwing With You (Or Setting You Free)
The new economy is here. And most people’s money mindset is stuck in the past. There’s something I’ve been jamming on lately. Money. Yeah, that thing we all think about but rarely talk about honestly. The thing that most people either obsess over or pretend doesn’t matter, while secretly stressing about it every night like […]
When the Mirror Becomes a Shield: How Reflection Gets Weaponized in Coaching and Therapy
If you’re in any kind of personal growth work, whether that’s coaching, therapy, leadership, or simply trying to be a better human, there’s a good chance you’ve learned about the power of reflection. Reflection helps us see what’s really going on under the surface. It helps us connect dots, notice patterns, and take responsibility for […]